Kathleen Passidomo, you are so very ignorant.

FL GOP Rep. Says 11-Year-Old Was Gang Raped ‘Because She Was Dressed Like A 21 Year-Old Prostitute’

We have our new addition to the Stupid Politician Hall of Fame.  We have heard about the disabled and mentally ill, killing illegal immigrants and now rape because of the way someone dresses.  And the award goes: Is a three-way split.  We can forget about: “I know you are illegal because of your olive skin or it was brown.”

Kathleen Passidomo, you are the most ignorant woman I have heard of. You have no compassion and no sense of humanity.  You are such a stupid woman who believes in the echos of her own words. Who ever put your dizzy ass in office should bet in jail.  Women like you make it difficult on women.  A WOMAN SHOULDN’T BE TOUCH, NOT EVEN WITH A PETAL OF A FLOWER.  Kathleen Passidomo,  if you are a mother you should choose your words carefully. It could be you at the end of the stick.  Kathleen Passidomo, I though Alaska’s ex-governor  was an idiot, but even her can compare with you.

President Obama where are you?, when all these politicians are acting a fool and bringing the US. back to the 50′s.  Come on enough foreign policy, concentrate in the people who put you in office.  We the people need you, where you at?  By the way CLOSE GUANTANAMO PRISON, STOP THE TRIALS. YOU PROMISE, but that is another story.

Ibn Uthaymeen: “Do not Marry 7 types of Women …”

 

*Do not Marry 7 types of Women* *1. Al-Annaanah: * The woman who whines, moans and complains and ‘ties a band around her head’ all the time (i.e. complains of a headache or some illness but in reality she is not sick, rather she is faking). *2. Al-Mannaanah: * The woman who bestows favours, gifts, etc. upon her husband then (at that time or the future) says; “I did such and such for you or on your behalf or because of you. *3. Al-Hannaanah: * The women who yearns or craves for her former husband or children of the former husband. *4. Kay’atul-Qafaa: * The women who has a brand mark on the nape of her neck (i.e. has a bad reputation or doubts about her). *5. Al-Haddaaqah: * The women who cast her eyes at things (i.e. always looking at something to purchase, then desires it and requires her husband to buy it (No Matter What). *6. Al-Barraaqah: * The women who spends much of her day enhancing her face and beautifying it to such an extent that it will seem like it was manufactured. *7. Al-Shaddaaqah: * The woman who talks excessively. . Taken from the Book: ‘A Concise Manual of Marriage’ by *Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen

The heinous evil of az-Zinaa’

“The Path to the Hell-fire is easy and may Allaah protect us from it, it is to do evil acts such as fornication and intoxicating o­neself.”

Featuring the heinous evil of az-Zinaa’ (the fornication), its causes, results and its prevention. Shaykh ’Abdullaah ‘Ateeq states, ‘From the greatest thing that will make the servant of Allaah corrupt, whether he is male or female is Zinaa’.'  Allaah says in the Qur’aan, ‘And do not come close to lewdness, that which is apparent from it and that which is hidden’. This is a proof that all acts connected to Zinaa’ are Haraam. It corrupts entire societies.

The Evil Effects

‘From the corruption of Zinaa’ is the increase in divorce and decrease in marriage.’

‘Rape is increased in society.’

‘An increase in diseases that result in death.’

‘The great amount of orphans and children born out of wedlock. This also leads to an increase in crime due to the lack of love and care of parents during youth, as he grows he becomes nurtured o­n other than love and a lot of the time becomes a person of crime in order to avenge that society.’

‘Zinaa’ is not a relationship of muhabbah (passionate love) or emotion. It doesn’t provide the strong ties of Marriage or bring forth the happiness of parenting.’

Women and Free Mixing

Imaam Ibnul-Qayyim said, ‘And there is no doubt that to let the Women mix with the men is the asl (foundation) of every evil and it is from the greatest reason for Allaah sending punishment upon the people and likewise it is from free mixing that Zinaa’ becomes manifest.’

‘The whole of the Women is ‘Awrah, when she leaves the home, the Shaytaan beatifies her. It is essential that the woman does not leave her home except for a pressing need.’ Allaah says,

“And stay in your houses, and do not display yourselves like that of the times of ignorance….” [Soorautl-Ahzab, 33:33]

And “O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or o­ne eye to see the way). That will be better, that they should be known (as free respectable women) so as not to be annoyed. And Allaah is ever Oft­ Forgiving, Most Merciful.” [Sooratul-Ahzab, 33:59]

It is important to understand that the voice of the Women affects the hearts of men since it is soft by nature.

The Evil of Music and Intoxicants and their connection to Zinaa.’

‘It is also important that a person stays away from Music, it has a greater effect o­n the woman than the man. Music is accompanied with singing and instruments and dancing and it is from the great calls to Zinaa’, Fudayl Ibn Iyyad said ‘The music is the ruqyah (incantation) of Zinaa’.’

‘Lower your gaze for it is an arrow from the arrows of Shaytaan. The first look is overlooked since it is unintentional, so Allaah had mercy upon us and forgave us for that and as for the second, the male and the female believer are both taken to account for that.’

‘The intoxicants are from the mother of all evils and it leads to Zinaa’ and killing, rather a person will fall into every type of lowly act.’

Being kind to one’s daughters.

Aisha may Allah be please with her narrated: One day a poor woman with two daughters came to mean I gave her three dates so she gave each of them a date. She then raised the date to her mouth to eat it, but her two daughters wanted it so she broke the date and gave each half.  Thus I was truly amazed by her act of kindness.  So I mentioned to him may peace and blessings be upon him, what she did,and he said, “Because Allah made it incumbent that He enters her into Jannah, and He saves her from the fire.”  And in another narration it states, “whosoever is tested with these daughters, and he/she is kind to them, then that will be a protection for him/her against the fire.”

عائشة رضي الله عنها مع الرجاء وروى لها : يوم واحد امرأة فقيرة مع ابنتين جاء ليعني أعطيتها ثلاثة تواريخ لذلك فأعطت كل واحدة منهما تمرة. وما طرحته ثم التاريخ إلى فمها لتناول الطعام ، ولكن ابنتيها أرادت ذلك وقالت انها كسرت الميلاد وأعطى كل شوط. وهكذا وأنا مندهش حقا من قانون لها من لطف. ذكر ذلك قلت له قد وسلم عليه وسلم ، ما اقدمت عليه ، وقال : “لأن الله جعل لزاما أن يدخل لها في الجنة ، وقال انه ينقذها من النار”. وفي رواية أخرى أن الدول ، “كل من يتم اختباره مع هذه بناته ، وقال انه / هي نوع لهم ، فإن ذلك سيكون حماية له / لها ضد الحريق.”

Benefits from this hadeeth.

This hadeeth illustrates Aisha’s radiyallahu anhaa, generoity, kindness, and the love to do good for others.  For in some narrations its states that all she had to eat were those dates she gave the poor woman. And this was something well known about her, for one time Mu’aawiyah radiyallahu anhu sent her a hundred thousand dirhams and before the day was over she gave it all away to the poor and needy.
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Taken from the book: The marital life of the Prophet salalahu alahim wa salam. by Dr. Khalid ibn Abdur Rahmaan ash Shaayi.