Is Jummah, the day we go to the Masjid, listen to the khutbah and go back, home, to work, to school or just go back.
If you are ask what the Imam spoke about? Would you be able to tell anyone? Would you be able to carry out the topic in to your daily life. In sha Allah, we all listen and we and we leave the Masjid with a firm reminder in our hearts.
How many times you hear the Imam talk about the same subjects, and when you look around we are doing the same thing over and over.
Some examples are: stop adding extensions to your hair, stop having fake nails and nail polish on. Don’t wear perfume outside the home, stop wearing fit abayas. When is these warnings are going to mean something to us, to you? When are we going to understand the consequences of our actions?
You try to tell a sister about these issues and she takes offence to them and the first thing she will say is: “Who are you to judge me?” I am not judging you. I am doing what any Muslimah who loves her sister for the sake of Allah Tallah will do. Command that which is good, and forbid that wich is evil, bad, haram. Stop been so sensitive, if you know you are wrong just take it with a grain of salt and shut up. Walk away and read to find more information about hijab, do’s and don’ts.
I am not here to point fingers at anyone. I am here to remind you to be obedient to Allah Tallah, or at least strive to become a better Muslimah.
We should look after each other, bringing any subject to the table. With no fear of retaliation. Talk to your sister, counsel her. And avoid backbiting her. Make sure when you correct your sister do so in private, make her feel respected. You will not like someone to correct your mistakes in public, because I don’t


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Boricua Muslimah

Graduate from Rutgers Newark. Journalist, photographer and videographer.


  1. Asalaam alaikum wa rahmatullah
    well said sister, we should all constantly remind eachother as it is our rights as muslims
    just my 2 cents
    walaikum asalaam wa rahmatullah


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