It seems we are in each others business, talk about each other, and exclude them if they don’t  do what you want them to do dress the way you do and so on… 

My sisters in Islam, be aware of backbiting.   Haven’t I posted enough videos about backbiting your brother or sister.  “A person is on his partners religion.”  it holds a 100 % truth when you are dealing with non-Muslims.  Dealing with misguided Muslims is a matter on what are we going to do about it?  How we are going to do it?  We help them to learn and follow the right path.  We don’t bash them and run them away from Islam.  Do you want to be accountable for your brother or sisters leaving the fold of Islam?  We need to correct each other with love and concern, not with harshness, so it sends them away from Islam.  If we can’t be patient then, leave it to the ones who have an understanding of the religion. 

We can not and should not point fingers, assume we are again, better than… because we are…  We are all going to stand in front of Allah subhanna wa tallah and we all be judge by Allah subhanna wa tallah.    Where is the patience for our brothers and sisters? We should make  excuse for our brothers and sisters.  Stop been so harsh and so straight when you know better. You are neither one nor the other.

 Stop assuming you know more than the next person, we are all Muslims, even though we are in different path or stages in our deen.

So please stop talking about each other and adhere to the Qur’an and the Sunah of our Prophet as understood by the companions of the 3 first generations.


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Boricua Muslimah

Graduate from Rutgers Newark. Journalist, photographer and videographer.

One thought on “BACKBITTING….”

  1. I think the tongue is the most dangerous body part – because of how easy it is to transgress with it; and how much trouble it can get us into.

    Silence is golden 🙂


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